Teenage BGR
Wow... never know students can be so kay poh...haha...when it comes to work...no enthusiam...when it comes to gossip....all ears are attentive!! aiyoh...
Anyway, heard of more cases of teenage BGR...from church, school etc... aiyoh..some even claim to have 4-5 steads before, and they are juz 14-15 yrs old?? is this healthy?
okay. admit it...most of the influences come from media...with the hype on love stories... romantic scenes...along with magazines, internet etc... they tend to portray pple in love as heroes and heroines, and that love conquers all...yeah tt's why students nowadays think being in love and going out on a date is cool...ahah...
But then, my question is....everytime when u haf a stead..u will say mushy things like "I love you" and "You are the only one for me." But if u keep changing steads.. it doesnt tally...it juz shows u say such words for the sake of saying them..no sincerity one... defeats the purpose of true love rite??
However, if a teenager thinks that he/she can go steady with that 1 person...then probably he/she haf to think twice when doing their math....
Say, he and she is 15 yrs of age....
then say..they wanna spend eternity tgr... so they get married...say at the age of 25...
so they haf to spend at least 25-15 = 10 yrs tgr....!! 10 long yrs as boyfriend anf galfriend!!
If i magnify the view a bit..it means...
they haf to go thru the stage where they may be posted to different JCs, Polys
they haf to go thru the stage where the guy is stuck 2 yrs wearing green while the gal finds greener pastures
they haf less opportunities to mingle with other ppl...thus widening their social circle
like that this type of relationship can survive or not??
of coz i haf seen cases where the relationship lasts for 8-9 yrs (ever since sec school)..but the probabilty is like 1/100 ??? hmm maybe more...
Till true love continues on...
Anyway, heard of more cases of teenage BGR...from church, school etc... aiyoh..some even claim to have 4-5 steads before, and they are juz 14-15 yrs old?? is this healthy?
okay. admit it...most of the influences come from media...with the hype on love stories... romantic scenes...along with magazines, internet etc... they tend to portray pple in love as heroes and heroines, and that love conquers all...yeah tt's why students nowadays think being in love and going out on a date is cool...ahah...
But then, my question is....everytime when u haf a stead..u will say mushy things like "I love you" and "You are the only one for me." But if u keep changing steads.. it doesnt tally...it juz shows u say such words for the sake of saying them..no sincerity one... defeats the purpose of true love rite??
However, if a teenager thinks that he/she can go steady with that 1 person...then probably he/she haf to think twice when doing their math....
Say, he and she is 15 yrs of age....
then say..they wanna spend eternity tgr... so they get married...say at the age of 25...
so they haf to spend at least 25-15 = 10 yrs tgr....!! 10 long yrs as boyfriend anf galfriend!!
If i magnify the view a bit..it means...
they haf to go thru the stage where they may be posted to different JCs, Polys
they haf to go thru the stage where the guy is stuck 2 yrs wearing green while the gal finds greener pastures
they haf less opportunities to mingle with other ppl...thus widening their social circle
like that this type of relationship can survive or not??
of coz i haf seen cases where the relationship lasts for 8-9 yrs (ever since sec school)..but the probabilty is like 1/100 ??? hmm maybe more...
Till true love continues on...
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